Methods of education:
The 2nd Khalifa says may Allah blessing him:
1. the first step in raising children and educating them is
the performing Azan in the child ears after
its birth. (I mean start raising kids since that child.)
2. hygiene boy permanently, because cleanliness of children
affects their thoughts and behaviors, the hygiene is important for the safety
of their ideas, and if you don't mind purity and cleanliness,, so attention
must be paid to the cleanliness of the internal spaces in children. This
education must start from the first day a child is born
3. the child must be given food at certain times, this
command makes the child control desires, patience, because most sins caused by
uncontrolled desires . And the lack of a system in place when children are born
with a sense of possibility to satisfy their wishes when and where they want
uncontrolled or unchecked, and this thing will grow up with them over the
years, unlike the above, the dates of the food children affect them positively
reflected on them, they are so familiar and restraint and working group and
non-wasteful and against greed, it is beneficial to health as well.
4. you must return the child entering the washroom at
certain times. And the health benefit, but the biggest benefit is that certain
times of bowel habit of defecating. Thus, children familiar system they will get
used to attend prayers and fasting and worship, each according to its time.
5. baby food must be given by a certain amount so making
them in patience.
6. must have a varied diet of meat and vegetables and fruits
because food affects the morality, tiny to be given a little meat in the diet
and a lot of vegetables because meat causes a children selfish and rapid in
angrey .
7. If the old little baby to be recruiting its energies in
different useful work, and we must give him a chance to play alone.
8. We should regulate him self-reliance, for example: the thing in
front of him and said he would give this thing now, but at another time. We
must not hide his thing because if concealed born has usually taken things and
hide, and this in turn will generate an untrustfullness .
9. no child should be loved so much because he will
have bad habits. In any Council goes to gain loves from people and this will have the
moral defects.
10. parents must provide a model of selflessness. For
example: If a child's illness and prevented from eating something , they bring him home, but tell him: because you
don't eat this thing, we don't eat, so this would get him in altruism.
11. care should be taken in the event of illness, especially
the long of it .
12. should not hear horrific stories of children, for they
generate their cheese, and no such children to acts of courage when they grow
up, and if you noticed the cheese in children must brave stories they hear them
wetlabohm with brave children.
13. the parents of the child chooses friends good morals and
make him chooses his friends alone. Thus, parents will be watching their
children manners too.
14. children must delegate responsibilities in accordance
with their age to have generated a sense of responsibility, even in games
should support parents and their children, this generates strong children in
psychology
15. you should take a look at the heart of a child that fit
OK, . We must teach them good manners.
the child must speak
politely to a child is an emulator if you addressed him a lack of respect, he
will treat you the same way.
. should not lie or we be proud, we frown in front of the
child, because he will learn this stuff. And the parents are teaching their
children lying generally, the mother thing in front of the boy and the father's
answer when asked that they do not, and so the child also learns to lie, this
does not mean that we do this work in the absence of children, but what is
meant by this is that who these disadvantages they only take their children at
least.
we must protect our
children from all kinds of addictions, the addictions weakens nerves, the
addict used blind imitation, and that kills human forces.
.
. we must prevent kids from the play away from our sight.
. we must prevent kids from being naked.
should we return kids
to recognize their mistakes and ways are:
. (so let them feel
that we did not fail).
. If the child failed in something you shouldn't stress but
pendular so feel a great loss that he lost, and therefore they console me, and
people must understand that this error resulted in this looser.
. to protect from future wrongdoing must speak with him so
he feels because of his error , for
example: you must pay before the boy for the loss, and thus the child will
think that as a result of the committed hands is not good.
. We should advice or punish
the child in private, not in
front of others.
the child must have
some money, it will generate in the child the following attributes:
.
the economy., self dependence
.
. assistance to relatives, for example:
If I gave a boy
thirty pounds, asking him to bring food to 10 pounds and eat with the other
children, and bought game by 10 pounds, and in give poor people 10.
. give them a game and tell them that this game for all
kids, and all they can and undisrupted, and this will generate them usually
maintain public property.
. We should teach our
children manners and rules of society.
. We should pay attention to his sport and make him strong,
it is useful to promote secular and reform the self alike.
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